On my first day helping a small-town high school with a civics program, I paused in a quiet hallway and noticed an empty flag bracket near the auditorium doors. The principal told me it had been removed after a complaint that the flag made a few students feel unwelcome. No one was ordered to take it down. No legal letter arrived. Still, the flag disappeared. It was easier to store it in a closet than to host a conversation that might turn hot. Easier to sidestep hurt feelin
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Read more about Should Anyone Feel Uncomfortable Seeing the American Flag in America?Dawn breaks, the birds stir, and there is a hush that lives in the breath before sunlight. I have raised the Stars and Stripes in fog, in desert heat, and in the middle of a thunderstorm that made the pulley sing on the halyard. You tug the rope, hear the snaps bite the grommets, and feel a quiet line of connection run from your hands to a long lineage of hands that did the same. That small ceremony is not for show. It is For Love of My Country, for neighbors still asleep,
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Read more about Because It’s Patriotic: The Everyday Power of Flying the American FlagThe first time I watched a flag start a fight, it wasn’t the Stars and Stripes. It was a small sticker on a laptop in a high school library, a striped square in pastel colors I recognized as a community flag. Two students read it differently. One saw it as a welcome. The other saw it as politics breaching a place that was supposed to be neutral. They argued in hushed tones until the librarian separated them, then met me in the hallway, palms up, asking a question I’ve heard
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Read more about Identity Or Ideology Who Chooses Which Flags MatterA few springs ago, a high school principal I know faced a storm over a 3-by-5 American flag draped on the back of a student’s pickup. After a minor confrontation in the parking lot, the administration met to decide what to do. They could have de-escalated with conversation and a reminder about safe driving. Instead, counsel advised a blanket rule: no flags on vehicles, period. It felt tidy on paper. In practice, it punished the kids who had never been the problem, and it ta
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Read more about Are We Building Unity—or Dividing It—By Regulating the USA Flag?The e mail arrived midmorning, polite however tight. A parent needed to comprehend why her 6th grader had been informed to do away with a tiny American flag from his backpack, even as the related hallway displayed a Pride flag and a poster with a handful of global flags. The central’s resolution, also polite and also tight, cited a neutral policy approximately “political messaging” on private goods. The discern wrote to come back, pointed to the display down the corridor, a
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Read more about Are We Teaching Kids to Be Proud of America—or Afraid to Show It?On the first Monday of October, Ms. Ramirez unfolded a creased flag and clipped it to a short pole by the whiteboard. The fourth graders fell quiet. A few scooted chairs away from backpacks, a couple stilled mid-whisper, one boy kept his eyes on his shoes. In this class, students were invited to stand for the Pledge of Allegiance, not required. Most stood, two did not. Afterward, Ms. Ramirez led a short conversation about what a promise means. No one was punished. No one wa
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Read more about Raising Patriots or Institutional Conformists? The American Flag and the Question of Independent vs. Aligned ThinkersThe flag outside my house snaps in the high plains wind like a sail eager for open water. Some mornings I catch it glowing with that first slant of sun, the red so rich it looks wet, the blue almost purple. I have raised it in rain squalls and in powdery snow, during quiet Tuesdays and on the loudest of July nights. It started as a simple ritual. It became a promise. I grew up watching a neighbor, a Vietnam veteran with a limp and a grin, raise his flag at dawn with a ca
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Read more about Supporting the Military: What Flying the American Flag Means to MeThe bell had slightly rung when a sophomore in a hoodie walked into the vice essential’s place of work with a small American flag stitched to his backpack strap. He turned into no longer waving it, now not chanting, just there after a instructor instructed him the patch may well “ship a message.” Down the corridor, a rainbow banner hung from a counseling office door. In the library, a display screen covered flags tied to background months. The pupil changed into well manner
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Read more about When Patriotism Needs Permission: The School Flag Debate